You don’t choose Aries . Aries chooses you. And when they do, believe me, you know it. You feel it. You smell it. Your survival instinct and your desire instinct are activated at the same time. Because Aries doesn’t enter your life like a gentle breeze. Aries arrives like a storm that’s had a double espresso , with fire in their eyes and a confidence that’s frightening… and morbid. And there you are, wide-eyed, watching as that person comes in, sweeps you off your feet, stirs your soul, and says, “Hi, I’m Aries. Do you want trouble or passion?” (Spoiler alert: they come in the same package.)
At first, they’re irresistible. How can you not fall for their game? If Aries has an animal magnetism , you’re not sure if it’s attractive or a shamanic spell from Mars. They have that energy that makes you feel alive, desired, pushed out of your comfort zone… or launched onto an emotional highway with no brakes. Because Aries charges at you, and you, naively, let it. And of course, how can you not? Aries is initiative, adventure, strength. They’re that person who looks at you as if you were their next great story… even though it’ll probably last as long as a Netflix episode.
When you start dating an Aries, it’s all passion, adrenaline, and a kind of teenage love, even if they’re 40. Aries makes you feel like you’re finally living , that you’re not an emotional houseplant. They lead you, push you, pull you out, propose, bite you. You don’t think it: you feel it. And that’s the most dangerous thing. Because with Aries, there’s no time to analyze anything. If you stop to think, you’re already out of the game.
And now for the bad part… which is actually also the good part. Aries has no filter. If they like it, they say it, if not, they say it too. If you’re wasting their time, they’ll spit it out without any anesthesia. Aries doesn’t embellish words, doesn’t soften phrases, doesn’t negotiate emotions. They either love you or they don’t. They’re either interested in you or they bore you. There are no gray areas. And if you’re an emotionally sensitive person or need constant validation… well, good luck with that.
Because Aries isn’t cruel; he simply doesn’t have time for beating around the bush. He’s impatient, impulsive, secretly (or not so secretly) controlling, and has a fearsome ability to burn you with a misplaced phrase. But he’s also loyal, protective, brave, and if he loves you, he’ll fight for you like you’re his favorite war.
Now, if you start a serious relationship with an Aries, don’t let him rest on his laurels. Because Aries loves intensely, but gets bored as quickly as he fell in love. He wants excitement, movement, passion, and challenge. He doesn’t want to explain 35 times that he needs his space, or for you to let him talk without interrupting, or for you to repeat “what’s wrong?” when he’s clearly ignoring you for sport.
Of course, when Aries loves you, they defend you with their life. They won’t let anyone touch you, criticize you, or look at you the wrong way. You’ll be their world, their fire, their holy war. But you can also be their number one enemy if you’re too clever. Because Aries doesn’t know how to betray… but they don’t know how to forgive betrayals either. And if you break their heart, they’ll silently erase you… after having shouted a few truths into your soul.
So… why do you want to date an Aries? Because you like fire, risk, and authenticity. Because you don’t want a flat story or a lukewarm love, and because you know that, if you survive the chaos, Aries can be the person who loves you most in this world .
And also because, deep down, you have the soul of a brave person. Or a masochist.
Both work with Aries. But you’re guaranteed drama .