I once heard a phrase that I will remember forever: “There are those who miss the train of their life by going for a bike ride.” Some say that you have become cold, that you are no longer the same and that you have lost the spark of love. It is not true, your heart is still beautiful, full of kindness and with an intensity that few understand. However, the scars are proof that you have given yourself to the point of tears, proof that you did believe that you would build a lasting bond. But, the other person was not on the same page and I am not only talking in terms of a partner, but also friends, family. There are betrayals that mark you. Why is it so hard for you to trust others according to your zodiac sign?
Aries
Yes, you are a crazy person in love with life, with friends, with madness, with loves that kiss as if there were no tomorrow. You love taking risks and feeling your heart burst out of your chest when you love someone. However, you are there, between desire and fear, because you do not want your soul to be trampled on again. You will never forget that, you perfectly remember each of your tears and that pressure in your chest that told you that you were not going to be able to overcome it. You did it, but you will no longer give your trust to the first person who smiles at you nicely. Your vulnerability has become sacred.
Taurus
Fortunately, you’ve already understood that you don’t have to wear yourself out with disloyal people. Yes, their betrayal hurt you one day, but that doesn’t mean they have the power to erase your happiness. You’ve learned to be more cautious, to relate to friends, partners and family members who really give you peace and stability. You can’t turn back time now, it hurt you to live through the disappointment, but it also taught you to open your eyes. Now, you know that it takes a lot more than nice words to win your heart. You prefer a few in your circle than a bunch of hypocrites.
Gemini
Ultimately, life has taught you over and over again that not everyone is trustworthy. You can no longer be the same Gemini, the one who believed that everyone deserves a second chance. Before, you thought that putting yourself first was selfish, but you learned that if you are well, you will attract the right people. It is hard for you to trust because you have already been taught with facts that someone can tell you to your face that they love you madly and at the first opportunity betray you behind your back. You run away from those kinds of people!
Cancer
The old version of you had the idea that you should always know where to go and who to be with, but after a few heartbreaks you realized that it’s more important to know where you don’t have to go back. There are people you’ve loved unconditionally, people you’d give your life for if necessary, and they betrayed you. However , you were taught to be able to quickly spot the red flags. Now, you know what kind of people aren’t good for you and when to cut the tie. Your trust became very selective and you’re at peace with that.
Leo
There are relationships that exhaust you, drain your energy and also stagnate you. You must get out of them as soon as possible. It is not worth trying and trying, what is worth it is to take care of your mental, physical and emotional health. At this point in your life, you don’t care if they judge you for not trusting anyone. You already understood how valuable you are and that is the reason why you are not going to allow them to treat you like they do. You don’t need, but you want loyal, reciprocal, loving and independent people. You got tired, you refuse to continue being the person who saves others.
Virgo
It’s true what they say, trust is like an eraser, it wears out with every mistake and never goes back to its original form. There are people who think they can come into your life and do whatever they want with your feelings. People who only think about their own well-being and don’t care if their actions hurt you. You want those kinds of people out of your life and you don’t care about the bond you have with them. It could be your partner, your friend or a family member; you are no longer able to tolerate mistreatment. You distrust thoroughly because you have lived through disappointing experiences from people for whom you would put your hands in the fire.
Pound
One day you got the idea that being an open book was a positive thing, you thought that maybe that way people would be transparent. However, you realized that you were giving weapons to your enemies, to those people who only want to know your weaknesses to use them against you. Those people who fake a smile, but deep down they are waiting for the moment when you break down. Hard, right? It is very painful to give the best of yourself to someone like that and that is the reason why you have become so distrustful.
Scorpio
You don’t care if people want to call you exaggerated, crazy or paranoid, if they see you that way it’s very respectable. You are no longer in a position to give explanations to anyone, on the contrary, you are exhausted of dealing with so much disloyalty. You already understood that after the first lie all truth turns into doubt. In addition, your sixth sense is undeniable, you can detect the bad vibe in the other from the first meeting. There are times when you maintain the bond just to see how far that person is capable of going. You are distrustful, but just being like that has saved you from those who are not worth it.
Sagittarius
You are doing well, you are choosing yourself and not everyone has the courage to do so. You will no longer allow yourself to be with people who cause you doubts, who break you with their actions and who then want to solve things as if nothing had happened. You don’t need them! You know how to be alone, you love your freedom and your independence. So, why entangle your heart with just anyone? You prefer that your distrustful side be the one to make the decision and if your inner voice tells you that it is better to walk away, go ahead. People who fit with your way of living will come along.
Capricorn
My dear Capri, can I tell you something? You deserve to be with people who highlight your smile, your essence, your desire, your ambition, people who say nice words to you, but also who show you with actions that they love you. Never stay with those who only highlight your survival instinct, do not force yourself into relationships that cause you stress and anxiety. Life is so beautiful, but it depends a lot on your companions. Let them say what they want, if something doesn’t give you a good feeling, don’t do it. Your distrustful side can save you.
Aquarium
Thanks to your mistakes you have matured and you no longer think about holding anyone’s hand to tell them how to do things. People know what they do and also the consequences of their actions. Never settle for someone who hurts you as long as others feel comfortable. Trust is the hardest thing to achieve and the easiest to lose. Giving second chances to people like that only calls into question your emotional stability. Don’t fall into codependent bonds that will only sink you and cut your wings. That means that being distrustful is not as bad as it seems.
Pisces
Sometimes, tears don’t let you see it, because it hurts to cut ties, especially with people you’ve been seeing all your life. However, it’s a gift not to fit in with people like that, so deceitful and treacherous. It’s the Universe desperate to tell you that you don’t belong there. Pisces, your heart is so beautiful, you are a sensitive, empathetic, compassionate, sweet being. You don’t deserve ties full of anguish and instability . You are distrustful because you have met people who love you one day and not the next. What’s wrong with being selective? In the end, you are in control of your days.