Suddenly, your life falls apart, what you once planned no longer makes sense, and the person who told you every night they loved you decides to leave. It hurts to realize that you won’t receive their messages to check on you anymore, it hurts to know that the jokes and laughter you once shared will now be mere anecdotes.
Letting go is like dealing with your deepest demons, the ones who tell you to beg them, but deep down you know that if you stay they’ll fall apart. It’s very difficult, especially for these signs, who have the hardest time accepting that a relationship is over.
1.- Cancer
Of course it hurts, of course you break down, you scream and blame life, you wonder why it’s you, and you start remembering all those beautiful moments when you and the other person connected without words.
You don’t beat around the bush when it comes to love; you give yourself deeply and transparently. You truly connect on such a close level that there comes a point where that person becomes your everything; you want to see them shine and smile.
However, that unconditional heart can become your worst enemy when it comes to letting go. It can be very deceitful, lying to you, telling you that your love is enough, that if that person stays, everything will be better.
But that’s not the case. What happens is that you’re terrified of grieving; you hate seeing yourself torn apart. You know it; your intuition tells you when it’s all over, but you delude yourself with a hope that only serves to further tear the wound apart. Don’t do that damage to yourself; please, put an end to it.
2.- Taurus
It’s very difficult for someone to understand your heart when it comes to letting go. You’re not the type to give in to just anyone; you take your time, and for ” I love you ” to truly come out of your mouth, the other person needs to show you their most vulnerable side, for the person to make you feel valued, protected, and loved. Who lets go of something like that so easily? No one; letting go makes you feel helpless.
However, the saddest thing is when your stubborn side emerges amidst the tears, because you cling to the belief that you can change the relationship and are lazy about starting over.
Why? You wanted it to be a lifelong bond, and the fact that it isn’t frustrates you. Taurus, stop blaming yourself; if the relationship didn’t work out, the responsibility lies with both of you.
3.- Libra
Whether they leave you or you’re the one who puts an end to it, it hurts tremendously to say goodbye to such an important part of your life. There was a moment when you thought you’d stay there, and realizing your expiration date has reached you is heartbreaking.
You don’t understand what happened, you blame yourself, and the tears keep you from thinking clearly. It’s very hard because you’ve grown accustomed to being that person’s protector, but when they’re gone, what’s next?
You have a hard time letting go, and you insist on keeping the flame alive, even if it’s already tiny. Libra, please don’t fool yourself, don’t cling to the idea that you can still be friends. Maybe in the future, but not soon after the breakup. If you persist with that idea, you’ll end up with your heart doubly broken.
4.- Pisces
For you, ending a relationship is exhausting. Your heart doesn’t understand reason, and when you lose control, you can fall into begging and humiliating yourself. Pisces, you don’t deserve that. Don’t let heartbreak reveal a side of you that tramples on your dignity.
You can love deeply—in fact, the feeling won’t die overnight— but never allow yourself to be trampled on in the name of supposed love.
The worst part is that your mind is cruel; it reminds you of every moment you felt your heartbeat accelerate from so much happiness. You’re empathetic and compassionate, which makes you even hurt to think about how the other person will feel.
Pisces, when you let go, the only person you should care about is yourself. Let the other person take responsibility for their emotions.
5.- Leo
Honestly, it’s been incredibly difficult for you to grasp the idea that things will happen when they’re meant to, neither before nor after. It hurts to cut out of your life someone with whom you shared your most secret fears , someone you told your dreams to, someone you saw yourself by their side for so long, but that won’t happen anymore, and of course it hurts. Of course, the tears come without warning; it angers you to have to deal with so much pain.
Plus, a part of you blames yourself. You start telling yourself that if you had done this or that, the breakup wouldn’t have happened. You know better; your heart, your senses, and your mind warned you it wasn’t the same anymore. Don’t let your pride make you cling to the wrong people. I promise you’ll cry until you can’t cry anymore, but I also promise you it won’t be forever.